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Holden + Michael

October 12, 2026 • Pepin, WI
140 Days To Go!

Holden + Michael

October 12, 2026 • Pepin, WI
140 Days To Go!
Winona Pavilla
Winona Pavilla - Best Woman
I honestly cannot remember a specific event or moment of when I first met Holden. It was around 2017, going on nine years now, that we met due to mutual friends. Our friendship has developed into one of those people that just appeared in your life like they were always meant to be there from the beginning. Over the years, we have grown a deep rooted friendship due to our love of EDM music, traveling and being nerds that do not always fit in the boxes of the "norm". Holden will forever be my ride or die friend, even if he is not a motorcycle (yet). We have been there for each other through thick and thin, best days ever and days we did not know how we were going to get past that moment. Through celebrating life's achievements and dropping everything to be there for the tears. It is hard to put into words what our friendship means to me. I was beyond honored to be his Best Woman on Michael and Holden's special day. Thank you. I look forward to the opportunity to see how your marriage further blossoms the relationship that you both have grown since day one. I love you both beyond what words can say!
Hannah Porter-Gilman
Hannah Porter-Gilman - Grooms Woman
I've known Holden since we were 12 years old, which means we've survived middle school together and honestly, if that doesn't qualify someone as family, I don't know what does. From that moment on, we haven't looked back. We've been through thick and thin: the good years, the chaotic years, the "what were we thinking?" years. We spent a solid chunk of our lives playing softball together, developing lifelong friendships, and perfecting our ability to laugh hysterically at the stupidest things imaginable. Add in my truly horrific Spanish (which Holden generously tolerated), and you get a pretty accurate picture of our formative years. Holden stood next to me on my wedding day, no questions asked, no hesitation and getting to return that honor now is something I'm incredibly proud of. The Holden I know and love is loyal, kind and endlessly steady, but somehow he became an even better version of himself when he met Michael. Truly an upgrade I did not see coming. Michael is a gem of a human: warm, genuine, and effortlessly magnetic in a way that makes you feel like you've known him forever. He drew me in without even having to try, and it was immediately clear that he was Holden's person. Watching Holden and Michael together makes everything make sense. Their love is easy, joyful, and real, and I can't imagine a more perfect match or a future I'm more excited to celebrate. I love them both deeply, and I'm beyond honored to stand by their side for this next chapter.
Allison Kuhlmann
Allison Kuhlmann - Grooms Woman
Oh Holden, I don't know where to begin. I met Holden at work where we were complaining about coworkers, and I never thought it would turn into a friendship. But here we are two years later, and you are now getting married to, who I would say, is the best person in your life, your soulmate, your rock, and your happiness. Through the long shifts, happy summer adventures, the bad days, the wonderful days, you have always been right by my side and I'm so grateful to be standing by your side on yours and Michael's big day. Although I haven't been able to spend a ton of time with Michael and Holden together, the times I have been able to spend with them, when days align, I can tell how much happiness they bring to each other's lives and the greatness ahead of them. I am so proud of you two taking the next steps in life with each other and I know it will be one of the many best chapters in your life.
Hailey Scheff
Hailey Scheff - Grooms Woman
Trained for high-pressure situations, Holden is thrilled this one ends with cake and a husband. Holden and I met in the small world of EMS. Holden is one of few partners that can make a stressful call, a walk in the park and make even the worst day better - with a little hype and love. Holde is one of the most caring and supportive individuals that I have the pleasure of calling a friend. Now, I have the honor of supporting Holden by standing by his side as he says "I do" to his forever partner, Michael. I was delighted to attend my first EDM concert with Holden and Michael. I have witnessed both the love and trust the two have for one another. Holden and Michael provide balance and reassurance to each other's lives, and I know that it will carry on through their marriage. I wish for nothing but happiness and strength to Holden and Michael as they take the next step in their lifelong journey together. PLUR
Haley Pacholl
Haley Pacholl - Grooms Woman
Holden and I became friends while working in the cafe at LifeTime, bonding over our shared authenticity, candid personalities, and slight inability to be subtle. We quickly learned way too much about each other and gradually became a steady support system for everything life threw at us. Eventually, Holden became my manager where we built a team that thrived. His leadership and support inspired me to step into management at another location, and honestly, I wouldn't be where I am today without him. As Holden and Michael start this new chapter, I'm so honored to celebrate with them. I can't wait to watch Holden marry the love of his life... not that anyone asked, but I fully approve. So here's to authenticity, sarcasm, and a love bigger and wilder than any of our workplace conversations ever were!
Jessica Lee
Jessica Lee - Best Woman
I've known Michael Kelly since our freshman year of college at the University of St. Thomas, where we met through a scholarship program and became instant friends. From those early days, our bond felt easy and natural, and it's only deepened with time. We've grown side by side through so many seasons of life, cheering each other on as our paths unfolded in different directions, yet somehow always staying close. Beyond our early college years, there was a meaningful chapter later in life when we found ourselves living in the same state again, this time as adults in Minnesota. That season felt like pure bliss and gave us the gift of shared, everyday moments that I will always cherish. Even when life eventually took me all the way to Seattle, the distance never diminished our connection. Michael has been a constant, grounding presence in my life, and I am endlessly grateful for our friendship. I am so beyond honored to stand beside Michael as his maid of honor and to celebrate this next chapter of his life. Watching him step into this moment, surrounded by so much love, is incredibly special and I cannot wait for the big day.
Amanda Matthes
Amanda Matthes - Bridesmaid
I met Michael when we were both living at Irvine Exchange, an apartment complex where we were neighbors for a few years. We first connected at one of the building's resident events and hit it off. What started as a simple introduction quickly turned into a friendship, and that same day we were already heading to a drag brunch at Union rooftop together. From the beginning it was clear we had a lot in common. We are both a little bougie, have expensive taste, and know exactly what we want out of life. Since then our friendship had been filled with great dinners, fun nights out around the Twin Cities, and always cheering each other on through life's next chapter. Michael and I also share a love for EDM and quickly became each other's go to show friends. We go to all of the shows together and have spent many nights dancing the night away, which is how I earned the title of rave bae. We went to our first music festival together last summer at Breakaway. Beyond all of the fun, Michael is someone I truly value as a friend. He has always been thoughtful, loyal, and someone who offers a genuine and unbiased perspective. I am so grateful our paths crossed at Irvine Exchange and I could not be happier celebrating him and Holden as they start this exciting new chapter together.
Aspen Jewkes
Aspen Jewkes - Grooms Woman
Where do I even begin? I've known Michael for almost my entire life. Ever since my aunt brought him home from college, we clicked instantly. From childhood adventures to burgers at breweries, raves, and everything in between. We've shared so many chapters together. Through ups and downs, many FaceTimes, and countless laughs, Michael has been a constant presence in my life and someone I'm so grateful to call a friend. One of my favorite memories will always be staying with Michael and Holden before heading to a festival. We spent the day by the pool, cocktails in hand, having real conversations, laughing nonstop, and truly deepening a friendship that means so much to me. It was one of those moments that reminds you how lucky you are to have people like this in your life. Michael, seeing you step into this next chapter with Holden fills my heart completely. I am so incredibly grateful for both of you, and so happy to see the love, joy and partnership you share. I support you with all of my heart and love you so much.
Jennifer Buckley
Jennifer Buckley - Grooms Woman
Michael (AKA Goodies) and I met our freshman year at the University of St. Thomas in 2004 and we clicked immediately. Some of my favorite memories include taking the last bus downtown to dance all night, watching him absolutely own the dance floor (especially when the song "My Goodies" came on), our countless shopping trips to the Mall of America, our tanning trips at Suds America and flying out to see him when he lived in San Diego. Now that we've (mostly) matured, our nights out have turned into regular brunches and dinners, but Michael is still very much the life of the party. He's a professional networker, has an unmatched eye for coordinating an outfit, and picking out the best restaurants. He brings light and energy wherever he goes. He's a friend I'm endlessly grateful for.
Marissa Kouba
Marissa Kouba - Bridesmaid
I met Michael when we were neighbors at Irvine Exchange in St. Paul, and we quickly became friends after meeting at one of the apartment community events. From the very beginning, I appreciated Michael’s charisma, warmth, and natural ability to bring people together. He created such an incredible friend group during our time there, and honestly, those were some of the best years of my life. Watching Michael and Holden grow together and build such a beautiful life has been so special to witness. I couldn’t be happier for them and wish them nothing but love, happiness, and success in this next chapter. Love you both so much!